Monday, October 28, 2013

Checki-ity Check, CHECK!

What a whirlwind month...well last two weeks.

Close on a house. CHECK


Clean house and move in. Check-ity Check!

Boo's Birthday. Check








Lesson for Sunday. Check

Halloween Joy School on Monday. Check.

As soon as the kids left and I got little Miss asleep, I found myself crashing and losing my energy. But I'm not done yet!! I think it's my fault telling myself I only had to get through Monday. That was a lie. I need to get through Halloween.
I still need to:

Clean the apartment.....ugh...

Trunk or treating

Halloween

....and actually the list goes on from there still. Maybe Sunday night I can relax? Although, there are countless things I should clean  or see about fixing/improving in our new house. What do to, what to do?

And can I just say, how embarrassed I am by how much stuff we have accumulated and how much stuff I crammed into that two bedroom apartment without any storage areas? I'n loving our two storage rooms and laundry room....NO MORE quarters for laundry!!


Sunday, October 13, 2013

Child Rearing

I alright friends, I need some advice. Boo is great in a million and one ways however, I have a growing list of concerns that I need to figure out how to address:

1.  My daughter is entirely TOO concerned how she looks.  She has become increasingly picky over the clothes, shoes she wears and how her hair is done. I understand there is preferences -and I try to let her pick out what she wears most days with some guidelines-like "it's cold outside where long pants and long sleeves, etc...." She has her own opinion what matches and what does not. I'm fine that she has preference on what she wears. However, I am not okay with her reasons- especially for the way her hair is done. "My friends won't like it" or today she said about wearing socks with her boots instead of bare foot, "my friends will laugh at me."  The other day we were going to the park so I put her hair in a pony tail quickly so it would be out of her face and it was a fast easy hairdo. She cried, not a tantrum cry, all the way to the park. When we got there she hid her face behind my legs, saying "my teacher won't like my hair" (her primary teacher was at the park). She would only went to play when I took her hair out.

I'm not sure what to do with this reasoning. And I don't like that she cares SO much at the age of four.

2. She doesn't care when she makes her friends cry. She's runs off playing and happy as can be. I feel like she is starting to turn into a little bit of a bully. I talked to her a little bit about it on the way home from church. I asked her what she wants ME to do when she's sad and crying- she then brought up that I make her cry when I take away her toys (which is done as a consequence for not cleaning up or like the other day I took away her crayons after she colored all over her dresser). Am I teaching her to be a bully by taking away her toys (I try to explain to her consequences and why I'm taking them away)? Am I teaching her not to care about other's crying by not giving into her crying to get what she wants?

3. She has been trying to police other kids. Today in church during the opening prayer she was telling one of the kids behind us to close HIS eyes.  It's funny that kids don't get the logic yet that OBVIOUSLY she doesn't have her eyes closed if she can see that his eyes are open. Anyway, I feel like she tries to tell other kids what to do often

these are just a few of the concerns I have but I think the most important when it comes to interacting with others. .

I realize that the answer lies with me and my behavior but I think I need some parenting opinions and advice so I can figure out how to remedy these situations.